W. H. Auden utfärdar en varning till faktiska och potentiella fag hags, som …

… go around with a social group of queers. All right, the people are more amusing, the conversation wittier, but it does terrible things for the girls’ egos because they find themselves in a society where they are not really needed.

Ur Davenport-Hines, Richard (2003). Auden. London: Vintage: 245.